Now’s the time to hug each other a little tighter. Kiss those dogs or cats a few more times than you normally would.  Check on your neighbors and make new friends because many people in our community need that connection right now. We all do.

Connection – human connection, truth, and love is the answer to that hateful bombing.

The way that we defeat this crazy hate is by love. Love comes in lots of forms, shapes, and colors.

I want to reaffirm that YOU, me, us(a), they/them – fuck it- ALL OF US(A) deserve to feel safe in our community. I’m sorry this person has challenged our community’s sense of security. That really fucking sucks! But where they wanted to sew fear – we need to draw near with love. So grab your leather and meet me at the Tool Shed! (Just kidding, I’m out of commission for a bit.)

I want you to know that I love you. YOU, me, they/them- fuck it -ALL OF US(A) deserve love and I love you. (Except for those two shitty people -but other than that- love.)

Look out for each other. We are in this together and our actions may just save a life one day. So if you see something that looks off or your bitchy Spidey sense is going nuts call the popo. Your actions could just save your neighbor’s or coworkers life one day. And another vigilant community member may just save yours. I hope we all vow to look out for each other.

Stay vigilant and if it looks like a creeper than call it in.

Stay safe and God Bless Palm Springs,

The Happy Homo

PS That childhood song comes to mind, “They will know we are Christians by our love….by our love.” How big is your love?

PSS God bless our Chief of Police, the Palm Springs Popo, and all those who served our community uniform or not. You always show up like the everyday American heroes YOU are. Are you the American hero we need today? I believe in u, us, USA.

PSSS May all those coming to visit Palm Motha’ Fuckin Springs have so much fun! Totes get that Doxi PreP- cause there’s some hot as fuck daddies here and your going to want to fuck them. I know I do. I hope to see more of you soon. Gotta run new load of Grindr arrivals just turned on their phones. Next

PSSSS Don’t let someone’s hate stop you from your Palm Springs “Next”

PSX5 Crazy times. James Ewe Comey even says “8647” – That’s crazy! 8647? What do you think?

https://www.newsweek.com/james-comeys-8647-post-sparks-wave-jokes-memes-2073492

PSX6 Dear Lord, please protect my community… meaning all of us(a) and bring extra comfort and tenderness those who need a little extra right now. (May you be the little extra someone else (one of your neighbors) need right now. Be the glimmer. Be the light.)

PSX7 Look out for each other and if you guys ever find you are under attack at any gay bars across our country (or gay establishment)… don’t hesitate to fuck a bitch up if they are there to hurt you or your community members. Stand up to hate for your community members who can’t!

If you have to choose and its between you, me, they/them, or us(a) and some poor crazy angry murderous white guy … I hope you choose the one where freedom rings. I hope you fuck them up! Fuck em up until the cops get there and choose us(a). The cops in Palm Springs are actually on our side. Its a refreshing feeling.

You are the American hero! Our story is writing itself with every breath We the People take. Be BRAVE and be the light. God bless our amazing and resilient city.

PSX8 In other news… if you have nappy ass dry curls for hair like I do you should try Tracee Ellis Ross’ entire line of hair care products. That shit is as delicious as the moisturizer from JLo’s Beauty line, “The Block Buster.” So yummmy. 2 days with Tracee Ellis Ross’ Pattern hairsentuals and I have new hair. This is what my hair is supposed to feel like, instead of that dry thirsty ass shit that was on top of my head last week.

Holy shit my hurrrrrrr feels so yummy post Pattern. I love it all but if I had to pick a curltastic favorite it’s the Palo Santo leave in conditioner, and the shampoo, and the custard, but even more than that is the Styling Cream.

I love having a little bit of fun money left over after I pay the bills. It’s so new for someone like me and I love it. I love getting the chance to learn more about myself than I ever had the chance. Now I can actually buy fun stuff for myself like JLo face crack (moisturizers/masks) and now Tracee’s hair crack (all of it is now my addiction). Even the free comb she sent with my purchase over $200 is bomb (no pun intended). It like gathers the hairs better than my regular ass boring comb; like WTF? how is it soo much better? That Jewels Sparkles on Ruples was right- this product for curly haired folks is sooo yum! I hope that I get the chance to continue to feel this thrive (I hope its just the beginning). God bless America.

https://patternbeauty.com/collections/all