The holi-gays are upon us(a) once again. Bah-humbug to Christmas this year for so many reasons. One being, the current administration has done little to inspire confidence—eroding financial security, draining the Treasury, and destabilizing global peace affects us(a) all. Which is weirdly surprising that he could “accomplish” those atrocities because that bitch can hardly stay awake in his own meetings… meaning his old decrepit piggy body and enlarged cankles are propped up by equally evil son of bitch(es). Scary.
I know my perspective often sounds unapologetically faith-driven, preachy and gay for Jesus, that’s because I am Blanche, I am. For some in our community, that’s a turn-off. I understand—I get it, I’m from Utah where that sort of hate and bigotry comes naturally to church going folks, but I never believed them that sexy Jesus wasn’t for me and you shouldn’t either. Many of us(a) endured harm from individuals, institutions, and churches just because of who we are.
But let me be clear: hate and discrimination are wrong. Treating your own child worse than your enemy, to me, is more sinful than anything. There’s only so much hate and abuse a person can take before they don’t want it around them anymore. I’m just here to say to you that those fuckers were/are wrong for hating, hurting, and violating your rights as human being, child, or family member. And to do it in the name of God- well that’s blasphemous af. Besides, that’s not what sexy Jesus preached about, it’s just not. Anyone who says it is- is a damn liar.
The last week we’ve watched political leaders exploit grief for financial gain and OMFG that’s disturbing. Watching those grifters parade around on a stage filled with fireworks, smiling ear to ear, asking for money after the loss of a “loved” one- makes me sick. Like ewe.
As a therapist, I recognize grief manifests differently for people and cultures, but what we’ve been witnessing, those displays feel disingenuous. I literally don’t know what stage of grief that person’s wife is in, but I guess we all grieve differently???? Or is it all a crock of shit? A scam? A grift?
I’m not telling you how to think- decide for yourself—but I will say when religion and even grief becomes a weapon against minorities, LGBTQ+ individuals, the poor, and the vulnerable, all while enriching the powerful and billionaires, it’s not godly. You can’t scream like the devil for people to put “Christ in Christmas” while abandoning Christ-like actions in everything you do.
Putting “Christ” back in Christmas should come with Christ like or Christian love and actions. Love is a fucking verb, bitch! Act accordingly and with the knowledge that Jesus was not white and was a immigrant. How you gonna let hate filled vile shit come out of your mouth, and forget to put Christ in your own mouth and actions. I for one, love sexy Jesus’ love in my mouth and I try to be a loving human being.
When I arrived in Palm Springs three and half years ago, I was beyond ready to give up those cold, white and snowy Utah Christmases. At the time, I was in peak physical shape—a result of channeling pandemic anxiety into fitness. I don’t like working out, but I had no where else to put it and there was an abundance of it. Working in an emergency room during COVID was terrifying. Every day brought uncertainty and fear that something I did or didn’t do was going to cause harm to others. That experience taught me the real consequences of ignoring science and safety.
You remember, don’t you? How could you forget? Every day was a fuckin horror show. There were so many more questions than answers. (Side note- thank God we had a Fauci instead of Oz. Dr. Oz sure turned out to be a piece of shit, didn’t he? I can’t believe Oprah gave us two big self-centered, greedy, and bigoted turds. She’s done so much good for our world but also gave us(a) those huge self-righteous turds.).
I remember being so fearful that I could possibly pass the Covid virus along to a family member, a friend, neighbor or even a stranger, which could then result in them getting sick, struggling to breathe, and/or even worse causing their death. That shit worried me deeply.
Like so many others in healthcare- being on the front lines gave me firsthand knowledge to see those real time consequences for not wearing a mask. It was scary times for us(a) then- and it’s proving to be a scary time for us(a) today- for other reasons.
I still struggle to understand the selfishness displayed by so many Americans during the pandemic. They didn’t give a fuck about the loss of lives across our once great nation; I know this because they refused to mask and over a million of our citizens lost their lives.
I can’t help but think about one of my uncles who boisterously protested wearing masks, he also, no surprise was/is Maga. I can’t help but recognize how things have shifted…. There was a time that he disowned me when I came out in my late teens. Now, the sentiment is returned. Regardless of what side of the aisle you are on- ALL human lives should matter, not just your own and if you can’t respect that, well there’s no room for you at my table. I may love sexy Jesus, but I’m not sexy Jesus and have human flaws. One being- no soup for you if you are a hateful human being.
Another commonality noted, the very same heartless and soulless Americans that refused to mask then are the ones who quickly joined ICE in 2025. The only difference today is those same people are refusing to take off the same masks they couldn’t breathe in back then. *eye roll*
Today those masks conceal their identity as they brutally assault, harass, and kill innocent Mexicans (Mexican Americans) and other brown people without due process. (I can’t wait for their judgement day and pray that God makes them answer for their evil actions sooner than later. I pray that sexy Jesus gets them and keeps us(a) safe from their evils.)
Around that time, I found myself deleting everything Nicki Minaj. Not that I twas a big fan for the wannabe Lady Gaga, but I couldn’t feign support for someone who displayed such disregard for science, truth, or the lives of her fellow Black Americans. Black and queer people alike looked up to her as an artist and trusted what she said and posted. We were all looking to leaders for guidance at that scary time; kinda like today. People with that kind of reach should think twice about their posts and if there is a potential the contents could harm the very people who made them. Perhaps they should also think twice about supporting evil people who would do harm to those same fans.
Don’t get me wrong, I believe in the 1st Amendment and freedom of speech. I support Jimmy Kimmel all day, er’ day. Everybody has the right to voice their concerns and opinions, but as Americans we also have the right to disagree with their stupidity and get to voice our disapproval by any means available to us(a). People’s actions and words may very well come with consequences. One of those consequences, in real time- the loss of 10 million followers after Nicki showed up for TP and proved to be another sycophant for a sociopath. I will never support her or someone who is so careless about human life.
This is what she said back then:
“My cousin in Trinidad won’t get the vaccine cuz his friend got it & became impotent. His testicles became swollen. His friend was weeks away from getting married, now the girl called off the wedding”.
What a crock of shit (in my humble gay Christian opinion).
Fuck that nut job for spreading false shit back then and fuck that nut job today for the vile hateful bigoted comments she continues to spread against vulnerable populations. I guess that one hateful guy was right about one thing when he was alive, Nicki Minaj is not a good role model.
She “appears” to be likely participating in a quid pro quo for pardons for men in her life- whom happen to have also hurt and violated young kids (at least that’s what er’body is saying). And just when I didn’t think I could be grossed out more…she furthered my disgust by using God as the reason to spread her hate. It’s clear to me that Nicki wants pardons for Christmas.
She has a history of being careless about her comments ….she had no qualms about sharing false unverified claims then, when the lives of her fans were literally at risk.
Especially when Covid Data shows Black people were losing the fight against Covid:
“Data from the COVID-19 pandemic shows that Black people were disproportionately affected by the virus, experiencing higher rates of infection, hospitalization, and death compared to White people, particularly when data are adjusted for age.“
She literally didn’t give a fuck about her own community and fans back then, when the stakes couldn’t be higher. People were dying-black people were dying. So, her recent comments and support for pedos and convicted felon (x34) didn’t come as a surprise to me, but it did seem to surprise a lot of other people in our queer community. To them, I’m sorry for your loss of someone you thought cared about you. It sucks to have your heart broken by someone you thought cared about you, but really only used you for their own gain. She didn’t care about you then and doesn’t now. Again, I’m sorry about that loss.
Looksie, we’ve all done some things we didn’t want to for some good dick but this bitch clearly doesn’t care about human life, the oppression of people of color, or the safety of children. Despite what she says, her actions and words are evidence that she doesn’t actually believe in the Bible or doing what’s right in the eyes of God. You can’t support trump and claim to be a good God-fearing Christian. Its oil and water- doesn’t mix. What did surprise me is that she’s not even an American citizen- so why does maga care so much about what she says anyhow?
I can’t wait for all these fake ass Christians to be refused entrance into Heaven when their day comes. I say that with my own certainty, because I don’t think Hitler made it into heaven. This pos president – is just as evil. I know I don’t get to choose how or when God answers their hate, but I sure hope we get to see it in real time; sooner than later! May God’s anger find them in this lifetime and the ones to follow. May they be given the same love or treated equal to how they treat brown people (and migrants) – for the rest of their lives.
I was going to share a second part of a story, but I’m going to have to save it for a later post. I’m fighting a cold right now and just want to crawl back into bed. So much snot!!!! I have the worst immune system and catch every cold there twas. This is literally the second cold I’ve had in the month of December. *blows nose* *ewe*
I pushed myself to crawl out of bed to wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanza, Happy Yule and New Year and to say fuck Nick and FDJT. We will get through this together. 10 million people spoke out in real time. Target is facing financial losses and Costco is booming. We the people have the power and don’t you fucking forget it!
Merry Christ-Mas,
The Happy Homo
PS May you get all kindness and love returned to you x100- that you give to strangers, servers, the poor, queer people, the disabled, the elderly, and Mexicans (really all minorities). Geesh, they put the “Christ“ back in Christmas but not in their own actions. How about taking the devil out of your mouth, actions, and the WH- that’d be something to brag about and the real gift. God bless
PSS Ultimately, when public figures or politicians exploit faith, grief, or fear for power, it corrodes trust and humanity. We deserve better—from leaders, influencers, and ourselves.
PSSS Sexy Jesus loves you and so do I. (Everyone except Maga, Latinos for trump, Latinos that work for ICE, Incels, and Ice Supporters)
PSSSS “We the people have the power and don’t you fucking forget it!” I don’t think I really have to remind the happy homos of Coachella Valley about this sentiment. Watching you all show up for each other and speak your truth at the Palm Desert City Counsel meeting was fucking awesome! (When the Mayor Pro Tem’s attempt to remove the Pride Flag from City Hall on short notice- ya’ll showed up and he ultimately failed.)- It makes me proud to be a member of your community. It makes me happy to be here with you in this desert. So cool and awe inspiring to see you all in action to do what’s right. Thank you for always standing up for past, present, and future us(a). What you did/do matters and if you don’t hear it enough- THANK YOU! (As far as the “normal gays”…. ewe and yuck. I’d so much rather kick it with ya’ll.)
PSX5 I watched a news story about Palm Springs’ own Barry Manilow and his recent lung cancer diagnosis. I just wanted to send positive vibes and prayers to the universe for him. May he be healed, cured, and continue to feel “great”, loved, and appreciated for all his days. God bless.
